My Country WeddingNotes on getting married in a field, a barn or somebody's back garden My Country Wedding
A wooden barn surrounded by autumn trees

My Country Wedding

Notes on getting married in a field, a barn or somebody's back garden

A rustic barn set up for a wedding reception with the doors open
Barns & Fields

How to Read a Barn Before You Book It

Every barn photographs well in July. The questions worth asking are the ones the tour does not cover.

4 August 2026
A couple under a clear umbrella in the rain on their wedding day
Planning

The Weather Plan Nobody Wants to Make

An outdoor wedding needs an indoor version that you would actually be happy with, decided months in advance and not on the morning.

28 July 2026
A rustic wedding reception with flowers and a cake
Planning

What a Country Wedding Actually Costs

A field is cheaper than a hotel until you price everything a hotel already has. Here is where the money actually goes.

21 July 2026
A decorated wedding card and gift table with flowers
Guests & Gifts

Gifts, and the Awkward Business of Asking

Most couples getting married in a field already own a toaster. Saying so politely is the whole problem.

14 July 2026
An outdoor wedding reception with floral centrepieces
Styling

Flowers That Survive a Marquee

A marquee in August is a greenhouse. Half of what looks beautiful at nine in the morning is finished by the speeches.

7 July 2026
An outdoor buffet table of food under a marquee
Guests & Gifts

Feeding Everyone Outdoors

Outdoor catering fails for logistical reasons, almost never culinary ones. The food is rarely the problem.

30 June 2026
A car parked on a dirt track beside a green field
Barns & Fields

The Parking Problem

Rural venues have a field for cars, and the field is fine until it rains or until a hundred people all try to leave at once.

23 June 2026
Festoon lights strung above an outdoor wedding setting
Styling

Lighting After Dark

A field at eleven at night is genuinely, completely dark. Most couples underestimate this by a wide margin.

16 June 2026
Rows of wooden chairs arranged outdoors at a wedding venue
Guests & Gifts

Seating Plans and the Family Politics

The plan takes an evening. The negotiation around it takes three weeks and causes more arguments than the budget.

9 June 2026
A woman in a robe holding a coffee cup the morning after
Planning

The Morning After

The bit nobody plans, and the bit that decides whether the whole thing ends well or ends with your father-in-law carrying trestles in the rain.

2 June 2026